How to approach a sugar mammy looking for men

Nowadays, there are more and more rich single women        looking for men. In the same note, there is also a growing number of younger men that want to date these rich older women. Our society might not always view this as something "proper". However, most men that are dating rich single women looking for men couldn't care less. There is something about rich older women that many younger men cannot resist. It isn't always about the money though. While majority of the rich single women looking for men are taken advantage by those that are only after their money, there are also cases where there is mutual attraction. For those who are looking to date rich single women looking for men, here are some tips on finding them and how to approach them: Go to places where sugar mommas usually hang out and mingle with them This is easier said than done because there is really no "exact" location where all sugar mommas gather around. However, there are places where they are most likely to gather. There is no 100% guarantee though that you can find them at these places. In short, we all have to do the "trial and error" approach. Places where rich single women looking for men usually hang out include upscale restaurants, clubs, shops and boutiques. In addition to this, you can also find lots of them by going to casinos, estate sales and even charity events. Going to these places can cost you money so make sure you are prepared for that. When you find your target, approach them with confidence Nothing attracts a woman more than a man that has a high level of confidence. The same can be said when dealing with rich older women. While using a wing man to introduce you to a younger woman might work, it wouldn't work for rich older women. Also remember that corny pick up lines will not help you win the heart of a sugar momma. The only way to win them over is to show them that you are confident enough to take them on. They won't be attracted to men that are all bark and no bite though so make sure that you can back what you say up. Avoid making her uncomfortable when showing her you confidence. Remember that there is a big difference between being confident and being a bragger. Be aware of what she needs from you It is quite obvious that a sugar momma won't be needing your money. What she will need from you is time, attention and affection. Make it a point that you will be able to give them these. Keep her interested by constantly showing her your affection. Avoid being inconsistent as they will only doubt your true intentions if you do so. Your ultimate goal if you want to win her over is to make her feel young again. Know what she needs from you and give it to her. Remember that there are things that even money can't buy. How to Attract Older Women   Avoid insincere flattery or pickup lines. These sound exponentially more ridiculous the older one gets and diminish both your apparent intelligence and sincerity. Women of all ages love compliments, but to attract older women your best bet is to be sincere and original. Balance discussions about your work with her vocational accomplishments and interests. Women desire recognition for their achievements, as do men, and this need tends to increase with age.  Discuss hobbies and other passions to attract older women readily. Generally, compatible interest in leisure activities becomes more important as we mature. Life is no longer focused on child rearing or formal education, typically, and career advancement may be less of a concern. Often, there is more time and/or money to pursue recreational activities. Consequently, older women may seek a companion that makes a good activity partner.  Limit discussions about your kids or parenting initially unless she expresses interest. Demonstrating that you are a good and proud father may not attract older women as before, when starting or merging a family was a goal. Both women and men eventually hope to find identities beyond that of a parent, and some older women may be in the middle of that process.   Demonstrate your self-assured side in moderation. Stability and self-reliance are traits women appreciate, but they also appreciate some vulnerability. While many older women are not looking to be in a caretaker role again, they do like to be needed and appreciated. If you come across as an overconfident, hard-core bachelor, you are less likely to attract older women who have the wisdom to know they cannot change you nor wish to try.   Show your youthful and fun side. There is less of a need to show off your maturity or financial success, as a discerning woman will know soon enough and decide how much it matters. A sense of humor is always a positive asset. Feeling youthful and enjoying the most out of life attracts older women the most.